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Happy Chinese New Year

2012-01-22T21:08:00.000+08:00

I'm here to say Happy Chinese New Year to everyone.

Have a bless 2012 with your family, loves and your friends.

Won't be posting any for today.

Quite busy.

So yeah.

Stay tuned.

Loves,

#16

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2012-01-21T21:24:00.000+08:00

Sorry for not blogging this lately. I was really lazy and kinda busy with my works. I had so many undone homeworks and helped my parents to decorated the house. So, I'm gonna make a post now. Hope you guys like this. (= Here we go :-

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Do you know that when a boy breaks a girl’s heart, its much, much, much more than you know it affected her? That her tears are not only to show how much it hurt but to at least try to blur out the world so she can forget? That she thinks every sleeping and waking moment what the hell did she did wrong? That when she looks at the photos of you with her, she tries to tear it but can’t because they’re very beautiful memories to keep? That she can’t throw away the gifts and carefully preserved chocolate you gave her because you gave it to her? That whenever she thinks of the “I love you” words you told her, she mutters “I love you, too” but realizes she can’t say it anymore? That its like the whole world tumbling before her very eyes? NO. You don’t know what it feels like. You don’t know how it feels to be cheated, to be left, to be fooled. And its taken very seriously because, once a girl loves, a girl really loves.

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Lastly, I would like to say Happy Chinese New Year to all my Chinese friends out there and everyone! Hope you have a great 2012. And may 2012 be your best year ever and of course, may God bless you all! Have a great day! ♥

Stay tuned for my next post.
Once again, Happy Chinese New Year.
x

Loves,

#16

A boy gave his girlfriend a challenge.

2012-01-17T20:12:00.000+08:00

A boy decided to challenge his girlfriend. The challenge was, to live a day without him, and if she did it, he would love her more.

The girl agreed and she didn't talk to him for a day without knowing he had only 24 hours to live because he was suffering from cancer.

She went to his house.

The next day, tears falling from her eyes as she saw him lying in a coffin with a note on the side,

“ You did it baby. You can do it everyday. I love you... ”

A short post of a sad love story.

Hope you guys love it.

Stay tuned for the next post.

Loves,

#16

[Dont’s] in love

2012-01-16T17:42:00.000+08:00

Do NOT rush into relationships.

“ Rushed relationships never end well. ”

Take your time, know who you are, who the person is, and make sure a relationship is what you both want to do.

Do NOT get into a relationship just because it’s something to do.
Well unless you’re just eager for all the heartbreak, drama, and such.
I think that this is one of the most idiotic things that people can do;-
Getting into relationship after relationship, just because. I don’t understand.

You’re 12. You’re 14. Or fucking younger than 12. You don’t even fucking know who you are yet you’re running around trying to figure out how you can get him to notice you.

“ Love just doesn’t work like that. At all. ”

Just remember, everything you do, every heartbreak, and every lie that’s behind a premature relationship has an impact on both you and him. And all those little things really show as you get older and meet new people.

Do NOT use a relationship to boost up yourself confidence: it won’t fucking work. Eventually you’ll have to learn how to love yourself before any of your relationships could truly work. You can’t experience true happiness with someone else if your own shit isn’t together. Besides, it’s emotionally draining for the person you’re in a relationship with.

I have a friend. She'd spent the last two years of her life being single, working on herself, building her confidence, getting closer to God, and finding true happiness. Now she is finally ready to be the best person she can be. And it took time. A lot of time. Time she couldn’t have used being in and out of relationships.
She just sees all these people in and out of relationships wondering why they aren’t working, and she sees a lot of people saying “I want a boyfriend” “I want a girlfriend”

“ Why? Can someone give me an explanation? ”

It's because, there’s a lot of people who ask me for advice and wonder why things are going wrong. You can’t make a relationship work if you aren’t ready, you’re immature, you’re not completely happy with yourself, nor if you don’t even know who you are or have your own life together yet. You just cant. And you fucking won’t be in one if it isn’t your time. Just stop chasing after things.

“ What is meant to be will be! ”

God will give you the relationship you need when it’s your time.
All you need to do now is:
1. Calm down;
2. Breathe;
3. Live.

Stay tuned for my next post.
xx

Loves,

#16

Remember,
Rush relationships never end well.
Please remember that.

Why people should move on.

2012-01-15T21:19:00.001+08:00

Hello! I'm feeling sad all in sudden when he popped into my mind all in sudden. I started to think a lot of stuffs recently.. Like, negative thoughts and shit. Well, I think a lot when I'm alone. I've told myself to move on, almost like everyday. But sadly, I couldn't. Something's wrong with me. Fuck it. People out there, when it's time to move on, at least try your best to move on. And of course, don't make your hopes too high. You'll be disappointed. Just like me. So.., I decided to make another post for today. And, this post in it’s entirety can be interchangeable. It’s intended, and may inspire, both males and females.

He doesn’t realize your worth.
If you find yourself constantly having to prove something, move on. If you’re having to prove how much you love someone, that you’re trustworthy, or that your attitude has improved, then he’s not right for you.

“ No one deserves to spend their lives trying to prove themselves. No one. ”

He can’t get with the program?
Oh well, Someone else will. Trust me.

He wants you to wait on him.
You’re ready now. You know everything you need to know, you’re tired of going through all the motions. All you want is him, and you’re 100% sure of it. He, however, still isn’t so sure. Nothing seems clear to him. “ He has you sitting on the bench while he’s allowing all these others to play the field. ”

Leave. Fast!

“ If you spend your life waiting on someone, imagine how much time you’re wasting! ”

Imagine how much life you’re missing out on! For every person who isn’t ready for commitment, there’s someone better who is!!!

It takes males a lot longer to figure out what they want, and no person should sit around waiting until that day comes.

“ Go out, live. ”

Loves,

#16

Ten ways you won't get your Ex back.

2012-01-15T16:05:00.001+08:00

Everyone desperately tries to find the perfect answer. The perfect remedy. The perfect cure. Whether the breakup pierced your soul yesterday, or two years ago, we all have a common ground.

Just how in the world do We get our Ex back (OR) How do we get over him/her????

Unfortunately, I can't tell you the perfect answer. What I can tell you is, what the answer is not.

Breakups are tough. Most everyone can agree with that. However, so many people make mistake of trying to take matters into their own hands, obsess over rekindling the fire and do everything possible to inevitably pushes the Ex further away. Don't be one of those people, please. Don't end up bringing more pain and heartbreak upon yourself. So while you wait for the perfect list of things that will either get you over your Ex or win him/her back over, take a look below.

Here's a few things you should avoid doing:-

1. Don't try to proving to him/her how much you love & care for him/her how he's/she's made a big mistake & how you deserve to be with him/her.

You shouldn't have to prove your love to anyone. And, if you wait patiently & don't settle for less than you deserve, you will find the person who will recognize your love for him/her without you having to constatnly prove it to him/her.

“ Love is a feeling that must be felt plain and simple. ”

2. Don't make yourself so available.

Showing up to every basketball game, puprosely walking past him in the basketball court and still calling him every afternoon will do nothing but push him away even more.

Most guys like mystery and when you eliminate yourself from his life, he will wonder about you more. He will start wondering how you are doing, who are you with, and why you don't come around as much.

3. Don't be so dependent to him.

A woman should be able to handle her own with or without a man. Often women both suffocate and frustrate a man when they are so dependent on him.

You shouldn't be so dependent on a man that the breakup is the end of your life because honestly,

“ Life goes on with or without a man. ”

And it always will.

4. Don't beg your Ex to come back to you.

This can cause your Ex to lose respect for you and you will end up feeling even worse if your Ex doesn't hear you out. Besides, you are a lot better and worth a lot more than that.

“ If you really have to settle for begging someone to be with you, imagine how that makes you look!! ”

6. Don't try to send your Ex on a guilt trip!

Sending your Ex on a guilt trip may get him back for a short period of time but remember, it doesn't eliminate all the feelings and reasons he wanted to end the r/s in the first place and eventually those feelings will return. And you will be facing breakup again.

If you have to settle on this tactic then you probably weren't meant to be together anyway. Sorry to say that.

7. Don't try buying your Ex's love back.

This is one that I personally hate fucking much! You are so much better than having to buy someone's love!

This sort of tactic can also cause your Ex to lose respect for you too. And it often makes you look pathetic or weak. If you're buying gifts for your Ex, then you're only wasting your own time and money! And often your Ex will use you for the gifts anyway.

So, “ save your time and money for yourself or someone who deserves it! ”

8. Don’t become obsessed with showing your Ex how bad you feel about losing him.

This again, goes back to begging him to stay, telling him why you deserve to be with him, being dependent on him and etc .

“ At the end of the day, you can only count on yourself. ”

You determine your own happiness and if you were using this person fill that damn hole for you, you were headed down to the wrong path anyway. Again, you shouldn't have to prove your love or try forcing him/her back by making instilling feelings of guilt!

And, most importantly,

10. Don't result to settling for rebound!!

This is probably one of the biggest mistakes that everyone makes. So do I.
Let me guess, you will make him jealous, am I right?? Well, yes. This may be true but a rebound is only a temporary solution to a problem that may very well be permanent!

Think about it,
“ How the fuck would you feel if you found out you were a rebound?!!
How would you feel if you were faliing for a guy and you find out that he is still in love with his Ex and was only using you to get over all those feelings or making him/her jealous?!!
Wouldn't you feel like crap huh? ”

“ Getting a rebound is only covering all the feelings that you still have for your Ex. They don't fucking eliminate them. ”

You have to be mature and respectful enough to take the time off after a breakup to get over all those stupid feelings yourself before you bring someone else into it. You owe that much to your next love.

In a way , a rebound is a way of lying to the person you are with. You know good and well, that you still have all these old feelings for your Ex, so why are you using this person to fucking get over that?!! This person deserves to be with someone who can love him how he should be loved and he just can't get that if you're still fucking stuck on your Ex. And, I know you need time to do that.

Getting into r/s immediately following, prematurely or before all the old feelings have faded can be a set up for failure. It can bring you on new drama, pain and even heartbreak!

I knew a friend. She was even guilty of this tactic herself and she ended up cheating on her new boyfriend with her Ex that she was in love with all long. She wasn't honest with herself. She had known where her heart belonged and it wasn't with the rebound.

So, “ save yourself the extra drama and avoid rebounds. ”

We may not have discovered the perfect remedy to getting over an Ex but, there are things that you can definitely avoid in making the situation worse!

“ Beautiful people,

Read it, think about it and live it.

You deserves better. ”

Stay tuned for the next post.

『Have a nice 2012 to all beautiful people out there.』

Loves,

#16